I receive many, many e-mails and today I spent the day
weeding through them. I came across this e-mail – and maybe many of you have
seen it before, but as far as I can remember (and because my memory doesn’t
always serve me so well), I had never seen this and it really touched my heart
so I wanted to share it here in Happy Times…
I hope this makes you smile, as it made me smile and I hope
it brings joy to you on this beautiful day!
Many hugs,
Cathleen
A group of professional people posed this question to a
group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?' The answers they got were
broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over
and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time,
even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.” ~Rebecca- age 8
“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is
different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” ~Billy - age 4
“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on
shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” ~Karl - age 5
“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of
your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” ~Chrissy - age 6
“Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.” ~Terri -
age 4
“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she
takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” ~Danny -
age 7
“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired
of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy
are like that. They look gross when they kiss.” ~Emily - age 8
“Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you
stop opening presents and listen.” ~Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with
a friend who you hate.” ~Nikka - age 6 (We
need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he
wears it every day.” ~Noelle - age 7
“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who
are still friends even after they know each other so well.” ~Tommy - age 6
“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared.
I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He
was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.” ~Cindy - age 8
“My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone
else kissing me to sleep at night.” ~Clare - age 6
“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”
~Elaine-age 5
“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still
says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” ~Chris - age 7
“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left
him alone all day.” ~Mary Ann - age 4
“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all
her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” ~Lauren - age 4
“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and
little stars come out of you.” (What an image!) ~Karen - age 7
“No matter how mad you get at them, you still don't want
them to ever leave.” ~Cody - age 6
“You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it.
But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” ~Jessica - age 8
And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once
talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
I want to be all of these things to you...
The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring
child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door
neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old
gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the
little boy said,
“Nothing, I just helped him cry.”
